The Effect of Sleep Disorders in Your Daily Life

If your job or home responsibilities are causing you a considerable amount of stress, you may find that you haven’t been sleeping on a regular basis either. Getting the right amount of rest can do wonders to help you cope with stress and reduce your level of nervousness. Here is some information about sleep disorders, as well as how you can avoid developing this condition.

First, you’ll need to figure out how much sleep you need depending on your age group. Teenagers usually need about nine and a half hours of sleep every night, but adults can function normally with about seven hours. However, millions of people do not get nearly enough sleep, which means that the body is not able to renew itself at a normal rate. This is one of the reasons that sleep disorders develop, since your body is more likely to fall out of the natural rhythm of sleeping, and stress and anxiety are sure to develop as a result. Not getting enough sleep will also weaken your immune system, which means you’ll be more prone to sickness, which will cause you to have to spend more time away from performing daily tasks.

Sleep disorders are quite common in teens, due to a condition called delayed sleep phase syndrome. Due to the hormonal changes that are happening in the body during this time, teenagers tend to be ‘night owls’ and want to stay awake when the rest of the family is preparing for bed. This also means that your son or daughter will want to sleep later in the morning, and won’t get the recommended nine and a half hours of sleep, since school starts early in the morning and throws their sleep schedule off. This could cause significant lack of concentration in school, and can be treated by attempting to ‘train’ your teen to go to bed an hour or two earlier than they usually would, so that they can wake up refreshed.

If you are eating foods that you are severely allergic to without knowing it, you could also be experiencing sleep disorders like sleep apnea, which is when individuals stop breathing temporarily without sleep. You may also experience insomnia due to indigestion, which is when you have severe difficulty falling asleep, and stay awake for extremely long periods of time without feeling especially sleepy–until it’s almost time for you to wake up.

If drinking a glass of water or warm milk doesn’t quite help with your sleep disorders, you may want to try eating a banana or a bowl of oatmeal a few minutes before going to bed. These foods are rich in tryptophan and serotonin, which will help you to to relax and will make sleeping easier. You can find out more about sleep disorders by visiting www.webmd.com

Experienced any Anxiety Panic Attack Disorders in the Past??

If you have experienced stress-related disorders in the past, or if you’re noticing that your stress level is definitely starting to affect your health, you’ll want to find out all you can about protecting yourself so that you can avoid having an anxiety panic attack. Here are some of the indications that you may be having a panic attack, as well as some methods you can use for treatment.

First, it is important to realize that it is normal to experience a moderate amount of anxiety in everyday life. The things that may occur at school or home tend to cause a considerable amount of stress, and if you have a large project to finish or are making a major life change, it is completely natural to feel stressed. However, when you notice that you are anxious the majority of the time, or that you dread the ‘normal’ activities that will make your day run smoother, it is time to seek help.

A panic attack happens when you have a sudden surge of fear that feels completely overwhelming. An anxiety panic attack is a lot more intense than just feeling ‘regular’ feelings of anxiousness, and unfortunately, this condition is a lot more common than you think. About one in every seventy five people in the world will experience an anxiety panic attack at some point in life, but there are ways for you to treat this condition.

When the fear or stress that you experience has become intense, try to get to a place where you can calm down and gather your thoughts. If you can not slip away to be by yourself, try counting to yourself or concentrating on your breathing so that you can calm your body down. This will also help to slow your heart rate and will take away any numbness or tingling you may feel in your fingers and toes, which are common symptoms of an anxiety panic attack.

You can also decrease your chances of having a panic attack by paying attention to the foods you eat. Some people are not able to tolerate coffee or other drinks that contain caffeine, so if you are already leading a pretty high-strung life, you may want to opt for drinking tea or fruit juices in the morning in order to get the right amount of antioxidants for the day. You may also want to cut down on eating foods that are high in sugar, since these can cause anxiety panic attack symptoms in both adults and children.

In order to find out more about how to protect yourself from having panic attacks, visit sites like www.medicinenet.com or www.webmd.com.

What is the Cause of Separation Anxiety?

If you’re going to be returning to work soon after being on maternity leave, you may be concerned that your little one will experience separation anxiety. However, there are a few things you can do to make sure that your baby is comfortable with staying with a new caregiver as you return to work–or go on a much-needed dinner with adult company!

First, it’s important to remember that babies are usually able to adjust to new caregivers, especially when they are young. When a child is younger than six months, he or she is usually able to stay with another babysitter or child care provider during the day as long as their basic needs are being met (i.e. they are being fed, changed, and occasionally coddled).

However, between four and seven months, separation anxiety may occur because babies are starting to understand the principle of object permanence. This means that they are beginning to comprehend that when you’re gone, they do not know when you will return, and will do everything in their power (i.e. tantrums) to make sure that you don’t leave them.

It’s important to prepare your baby for the separation weeks before you know you will be returning to work. Try leaving your baby in the nursery in his or her crib for a few minutes while you leave the room. Pay attention to your baby’s response when you’re not there, and try this for a few days at a time so that your baby will begin to understand the concept that just because you are gone temporarily, you won’t be gone forever.

As your baby grows into a toddler, he or she may experience separation anxiety even more, although they will exhibit other signs that indicate they are growing more independent. One of the best ways to avoid or improve this is to make sure that your little one is exposed to social situations on a regular basis. This way, he or she will not be so taken aback when you have to leave them for short periods of time. Making sure that your baby is around people you can trust, such as longtime friends, parents, or other family members will make your toddler more comfortable when he or she is without you, and you’ll feel better when you have to go off to work as well.

Making sure that you do all you can to treat and prevent separation anxiety in your child may also help to reduce the risk of anxiety disorders in the future. For more great tips and suggestions on how to keep your baby happy and well-adjusted, check out www.kidshealth.org.

How Good or Bad is The Linden Method?

August 17, 2009 by admin · Leave a Comment
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The Linden Method is very effective, and I have no doubt about it. However, from the research online, I found something very interesting, let me share them with you:

1. In the forum, some people claimed The Linden Method doesn’t work for them because it is unrealistic to follow the instruction. For example: You have kids and family, and you can’t imagine you are alone in a calm and warm place. I have no argument with that, but if your condition continues to get worst because of the kids, you should get a baby sitter.

2. Some people say that The Linden Method doesn’t work, but the fact is just…

There are many different level of success on the online forums, and testimonial on The Linden Method website proves it does work!

3. In one of The Linden Method’s teaching you to put yourself into the situation of panic attack, and even wanted an attack to strike you directly! Someone over the internet bought the course but too fear to face the panic attack, and they just put away the course, then claim that it won’t work… What more can I say about this?

Is The Linden Method a rip off or another online scam?

No, please don’t compare this solid method with other scam out there! It might not work for you, but this is not a rip off.

First thing first, I need to clarify something here, and I don’t meant to offend anyone on this matter, however, the mentality and attitude of the person will determine his success and failure, especially in the treatment of anxiety disorder.

If you are skeptic about this online courses, don’t even try to buy it, this is just waste time, Here’s why:

When you already have the bad impression of the course, you just won’t believe and try to work it out, why waste time and money? You must follow the exact instruction and try different ways to make it work for you. That’s why you must prepared yourself before jumping into any kind of treatment, especially when you are skeptic about everything over the Internet.

Effectiveness of The Linden Method

When you are in great pain and desperately to look for a solution, then you must have faith and dedication to learn the solution. I will urge you to try The Linden Method today, don’t waste your time over thinking too much, go find out if this works for you or not. Here are some advice:

1. Keep trying different treatment methods, and some may be right for you, but other may no. However, you won’t know the result unless you tried. There is no single treatment that work for everyone, you just need to find out yourself.

2. To try The Linden Method thoroughly, you must be patient, and try for at least a month before moving on or you won’t be sure if this is going to work for you. The Linden Method takes time to practice, and only with a lot of practices, you will start to see result.

3. You must have certain faith on the treatment before you try and see any positive results. The first thing is to believe this is the cure that will help you recover from anxiety attacks, and because many people already recovered, you should too!

4. Each practice of the 9 pillars should give you different level of positive result, However, if you don’t see any result, you probably are doing something wrong; Call the support team or post your question in the forum, discuss the matter with the professionals and other members, this would greatly help you learn the course more effectively.

During the process of recovery, the family and friends’ support are vital to the sufferer, without support and faith, no way the treatment will work!

Reading or listening to self help program is always a good idea, it will give you courage and the confidence to face your problems, without it you won’t be success.

If you follow the instruction precisely, you should see different level of results. Even if there is a slight improvement, please continue to follow the practice. And if you have doubt and question about the course, you should join the supporting forum, it will help you learn faster and recover faster.

However, if you for any reason failed to see any result at all, return the course and ask for the refund, Charles Linden covered you with a one year refund guarantee, you are risk free to try.

Anxiety & Panic – Two Steps to Take Before the Healing Process Begins

Anxiety sufferers are usually at a loose end after trying methods such as Cognitive Behavioral Techniques, Hypnosis, Sessions with psychologists, Meditation, Herbal Alternatives and probably the most popular of them all is Medications such as anti-depressants and Benzodiazepine’s.

Now I was no different to any other sufferer, I was pulling my hair out in the hopes of one of these alternatives would kick in and free me of this dreadful nightmare that I lived, day in and day out for years. Unable to leave my house in fear something dreadful was going to happen to me.

But after plenty of research I did eventually eliminate my anxiety and panic disorder. And it certainly wasn’t from taking medications, or hypnosis or CBT or any of the worlds most practiced techniques (which have always given a rather poor response in curing anxiety and panic attacks).

Two Steps to Begin the Healing Process

Step One…

Acceptance

Accepting that what you have is Anxiety and Panic Disorder. And yes, I know this can be an extremely hard thing to accept. You’re sure that it always must be something else, your heart is racing (you think that you must be having a heart attack). You’re finding it difficult to swallow (so now your thoughts sway to you must have throat cancer). You find it difficult to breathe (and in that moment you’re sure your going to pass out or die, or maybe you think you have lung cancer or emphysema). Yes, I know how these thoughts can take control of your mind.

But in order to become well again, you must accept all these feelings are, are anxiety and panic attacks.

Step Two…

Trust

I struggled with this issue a lot. And I certainly understand when you have lost all faith. After all, you’ve tried all these other techniques with little to no success. So you begin to wonder why “this time” would be any different to all the other methods you have tried to your wits end.

But the moment you give up all hope and lose trust in any other possible natural method, than this will be when you prevent you’re healing and eliminating of Anxiety & Panic Disorder.

Anxiety and Panic Attacks can be eliminated naturally and for good! I’m living proof of that.

Agoraphobia and Panic Attacks

There is phobia that is linked to the experience of panic attacks, and that is agoraphobia. Agoraphobia is the fear of open spaces or of being in crowded, public places such as shopping markets. It is a fear associated with leaving a safe zone, such as the home.

Because of a feeling of being vulnerable, people who experience this fear often suffer from panic attacks in these “open” situations. It is true to say many people who have regular panic attacks experience different degrees of agoraphobia. Some have a lingering background anxiety about being away from home should they experience a panic attack. Other people are so immobilized by this fear that they find it very difficult to leave their home for even a short period.

The thinking behind agoraphobia usually follows the line that were a panic attack to occur, who would look after the person, how would he or she get the assistance and reassurance they needed? The vulnerability grows from the feeling that once victims of agoraphobia are caught in the anxiety, they are suddenly unable to look after themselves and are therefore at the mercy of the place they find themselves in and the strangers around them. In its extreme form, agoraphobia and panic attacks can lead to a situation where people become housebound for numerous years. Please note, this is by no means a hopeless situation, and I always need to reinforce the fact that something only becomes hopeless once the person really believes that to be the case.

To begin with, the primary issue that needs to be addressed is the belief in the safe zone. To clarify, when I talk about safe zone, I am referring to the zone where the person believes panic attacks do not occur, or at least occur infrequently. As comfort is found there, it is where the person tends to spend more and more time. The safe zone of anxiety is a myth sustained by the mind. The mind has developed a habit of thinking that dictates that being inside the safe zone is the only place to feel secure and avoid agoraphobia and panic attacks. If agoraphobia is an issue for you, watch as your mind comes up with reasons why it believes only a certain area is safe and another is not. Those reasons range from being near the phone or people you trust to having familiar physical surroundings to reassure you.

The reality of anxiety is that there is no such thing as a safe zone. There is nothing life threatening about a panic attack, and therefore sitting at home is the same as sitting under the stars on a desert island. Of course, your mind will immediately rush to tell you that a desert island is a ridiculous place to be as there are no hospitals, no tranquillisers, no doctors, NO SAFETY.

You need to review your previous experiences of panic attacks. Aren’t you still here, alive and well, after all those attacks during which you were convinced you were going to die?

It may be that on occasions you have been driven to the hospital where they did medicate you to calm you down, but do you really believe that you would not have survived were it not for the drugs? You would have. If the same bout of anxiety had occurred on this desert island, it too would have passed, even if you were all alone. Yes, when it comes to conditions that need medical attention such as asthma, diabetes, and a whole litany or other conditions, then having medical aid nearby is a big asset, but no doctor in the world would tell someone with anxiety that there are only specific safe zones in which she or he can move.

As I know more than anyone how terrifying it can feel to move out of your safe zone as the feeling of fear is welling up inside, I do not wish to sound harsh. This course is not about chastising people for their behaviours. It is a way of looking together at solutions and seeing through the myths that form prison walls. The goal is to enable you to return to a richer and more meaningful life and ultimately defeat your agoraphobia and panic attacks. I also realize that people around you cannot understand why a trip to shops would cause you such discomfort. You will have to forgive them and try not to be upset by their lack of understanding of your problem.

If an individual such as a partner or family member has not had a similar anxiety issue, that person may often find it hard to understand and empathize with what you are going through. I am sure you have been dragged out of the house numerous times against your will, kicking and screaming. This can then lead to tensions and arguments and is upsetting as it can make you feel less understood by those around you. People around agoraphobics are often simply trying what they feel is best. If you can see that their intentions are well meaning (although often misguided), then you will be able to relate to them better and help sooth any potential conflicts.

There is one thing I am sure you will agree with, and that is that the only person who will get you out of agoraphobic thinking is yourself. These are your thoughts, and only you can begin to change that pattern. Dealing with long term agoraphobia and panic attacks is a slow process to begin with, but once the results start happening, it moves faster and faster until you reach a point where you will find it hard to believe that going out was such a difficult task.

Public Speaking and Panic Attacks

August 14, 2009 by admin · Leave a Comment
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It is often observed that many people’s top ranking fear is not death but having to speak in public. The joke is that these people would rather be lying in the casket at the funeral than giving the eulogy. Public speaking for people who suffer from panic attacks or general anxiety often becomes a major source of worry weeks or even months before the speaking event is to occur.

These speaking engagements do not necessarily have to be the traditional “on a podium” events but can be as simple as an office meeting where the individual is expected to express an opinion or give verbal feedback. The fear of public speaking and panic attacks in this case centers on having an attack while speaking. The individual fears being incapacitated by the anxiety and hence unable to complete what he or she is saying. The person imagines fleeing the spotlight and having to make all kinds of excuses later for their undignified departure out the office window….

This differs slightly from the majority of people who fear public speaking because their fear tends to revolve around going blank while speaking or feeling uncomfortable under the spotlight of their peers. The jitters or nerves of speaking in public are of course a problem for this group as well, but they are unfamiliar with that debilitating threat which is the panic attack, as they most likely have not experienced one before.

So how should a person with an anxiety issue tackle public speaking?

Stage one is accepting that all these bizarre and quite frankly unnerving sensations are not going to go away overnight. In fact, you are not even going to concern yourself with getting rid of them for your next talk. When they arrive during a speech/meeting, you are going to approach them in a new manner. What we need to do is build your confidence back to where it used to be before any of these sensations ever occurred. This time you will approach it in a unique, empowering manner, allowing you to feel your confidence again. It is said that most of the top speakers are riddled with anxiety before speaking, but they somehow use this nervousness to enhance their speech. I am going to show you exactly how to do this, although I know that right now if you suffer from public speaking and panic attacks you may find it difficult to believe you can ever overcome it.

My first point is this and it is important. The average healthy person can experience an extreme array of anxiety and very uncomfortable sensations while giving a speech and is in no danger of ever losing control, or even appearing slightly anxious to the audience. No matter how tough it gets, you will always finish your piece, even if at the outset it feels very uncomfortable to go on. You will not become incapacitated in any way.

The real breakthrough for if you suffer from public speaking and panic attacks happens when you fully believe that you are not in danger and that the sensations will pass.

“I realize you (the anxiety) hold no threat over me.”

What keeps a panic attack coming again and again is the fear of the fear—the fear that the next one will really knock your socks off and you feel you were lucky to have made it past the last one unscathed. As they were so unnerving and scary, it is your confidence that has been damaged by previous anxiety episodes. Once you fully understand you are not under any threat, then you can have a new response to the anxiety as it arises while speaking.

Defeating public speaking and panic attacks…

There is always a turning point when a person moves from general anxiety into a panic attack, and that happens with public speaking when you think to yourself:

“I won’t be able to handle this in front of these people.”

That split second of self-doubt leads to a rush of adrenaline, and the extreme anxiety arrives in a wave like format. If, however, when you feel the initial anxiety and you react with confidence that this is not a threat to you, you will move out of the anxiety rapidly. Using this new approach is a powerful ally because it means it is okay to feel scared and feel the anxiety when speaking–that is fine; you are going to feel it and move with and through the sensations in your body and out the other side. Because he or she is feeling very anxious, often before the talk has begun, that person may feel they have already let themselves down. Now, you can relax on that point. It is perfectly natural to feel the anxiety. Take for example the worst of the sensations you have ever experienced in this situation—be it general unease to loss of breath. You will have an initial automatic reaction that says:

“Danger–I’m going to have an episode of anxiety here and I really can’t afford that to happen.”

At this point most people react to that idea and confirm it must be true because of all of the unusual feelings they are experiencing. This is where your thinking can lead you down a train of thought that creates a cycle of anxiety that produces a negative impact on your overall presenting skills.

So let that initial “oh dear, not now” thought pass by, and follow it up immediately with the attitude of:

“There you are–I’ve been wondering when you would arrive. I’ve been expecting you to show up—by the way, I am not in the least threatened by any of the strange sensations you are creating—I am completely safe here.”

The key to controlling your fear of public speaking and panic attacks is that instead of pushing the emotional energy and excitement down into your stomach, you are moving out through it. Your body is in a slightly excited state, exactly as it should be while giving a speech, so release that energy in your self-expression. Push it out through your presentation not down into your stomach. You push it out by expressing yourself more forcefully. In this way you turn the anxiety to your advantage by using it to deliver a speech where you come across more alive, energetic and in the present moment. When you notice the anxiety drop as it does when you willingly move into it. Fire a quick thought off when you get a momentary break (as I am sure you have between pieces), asking it for “more.” You want more of its intense feelings as you are interested in them and are absolutely not threatened by them.

It seems like a lot of things to be thinking about while talking to a group of people, but it is not really. You’d be amazed how many different non-related thoughts you can have while speaking. This approach is about adopting a new attitude of confidence to what you might have deemed a serious threat up until now. This tactic will truly help you with fear of public speaking and panic attacks you have associated with them.

If your predominant fear of the speaking engagement is driven by a feeling of being trapped, then I would suggest factoring in some mental releases that can be prepared before the event. For example, some meetings/speeches allow for you to turn the attention back to the room to get feedback etc. from the group.

If possible, you might want to prepare such opportunities in your own mind before the engagements. This is not to say you have to ever use them, but people in this situation often remark that just having small opportunities where attention can be diverted for the briefest of moments can make the task seem less daunting. It my even be something as simple as having people introduce themselves or opening the floor to questions. I realize these diversions are not always possible and depend on the situation, but anything you can factor in that makes you feel less trapped or under the spotlight is worth the effort and can help alleviate fear of public speaking and panic attacks.